interesting scenario with a lot of possibilities! how friendly is your fiance and the baby daddy? are they on speaking terms? it might be cool to see whether he's likeminded... as well as probe the fiance, ask her about her daughter, about whether she is developing too quickly, too slowly, etc., to get her to comment on/reflect on her baby girl's budding sexual needs
That could also backfire terribly if not done carefully and cause things to get worse fro many people.
I think the first thing to do is to tell the girl in private that many people get very angry if they hear other people are touching peoples private parts,especially if one is considered a child and if they find out, they will cause all sorts of trouble that will lead to people being separated from loved ones, people getting hurt, and many other bad things, when a child is involved people react even more strongly, so it is important for her to understand this and learn how to be careful as she learns how to form relationships with people. Not everyone is nice.
Thanks for the warning Whyme but do you really think I cold get in trouble. She didn't jerk me off. I didn't do anything wrong. I wasn't even hard. I did take a while to walk away from the situation. I am wondering if the video will help or hurt me if I have to defend my actions. I also agree with you about my fiance. I don't think this is a subject I should talk to her about but also if I wait it makes me look more guilty.
Matthew1914
I don't know if I feel lucky. I don't know what to make of everything. I have been avoiding the living room when we are alone in the house together. I haven't seen her playing with herself on camera again but she could be doing that in her room. It doesn't help that both mother and daughter like to walk around the house in their underwear . Sometimes with no top. They are very comfortable with their bodies. I don't want either one of them seeing me get aroused while looking at the other. I didn't think much about it before but sometime when I was being intimate with my fiance at night, her daughter would come in the room. Saying she wants to sleep with us, can't sleep or she had a nightmare. It hard sleeping next to them both while I was erect or worse when we started but didn't get to finish. It has happen several times over our relationship. Do you think her daughter is doing it on purpose or am I over thinking it.
gentlegayped
My fiance hates her x. I have only met him in passing. She only talks with him about the kid. I have talked to my fiance about the future and her daughter. She seems like she is open minded and will let her daughter do what she will and make her own decisions. Though she doesn't notice or think about her daughter current sexuality. If I were to bring it up I believer she would find it weird.
Ricardo I wouldn't mind direct messaging. Is there a way to do that on this community or do I have to go or get something else to do that.
be careful how you say thing to what, you could end up bringing something up that someone did not know about, maybe it had nothing to do with the person youre talking to, and further creating separation from her loved ones and leading to life long depression of loss, guilt, confusion and suffering we see so many people carry here and else where their whole life. I dont think we want to see that happen.
Its also possible she got the camera to see how you react to things
does she watch it?
My best idea I can think of is start with why they split up. Tell her you accept her for who she is, you love her and her daughter, and want to understand them better.
If that seems safe enough maybe try talking to the fiance and telling her your accept her for who she is and wouldnt abandon her or leave her if she had some very unpopular habits and you would want to talk about it and find a way to make things work, but maybe that would trigger her suspicion and hate at you because she left her babies father over something like that.... maybe she didnt receive any guidance and isnt giving her daughter any, and its coming from others who she is avoiding. ... First you should ask if she left him because she thought he might possibly be a dangerous influence on their daughter, or if it was something else. maybe thats too direct, Sorry I dont have a better idea
as for the video if things go badly for everyone, if the loudest and most dramatic are anything to go by, and people often follow the loudest opinion, it might not matter what happened, but it might be understood that you were simply in shock and didnt respond, or you could be treated as the worst thing in the world no matter what actually happened and undeserving or basic human rights or empathy like the jews hunting natzis, because they too believed jews were less than human and deserved no basic human rights or sympathy.So... beware of the natzis
